Blue Jean Bailey

I knew I wanted to be in Greek life ever since I applied to colleges. After reviewing academics and overall living conditions, whether or not a college had a great greek system was a priority of mine when choosing my college. UF's Panhellenic Council is second to none. I went through formal recruitment in the fall, a week before classes started. 

Sorority recruitment is probably the most exhausting experience of anyone's college career. Mine was eight days of sweat, tears, and overall exhaustion. I was so beyond blessed to be welcomed into Phi Mu and I don't regret anything.

My sorority has made me step out of my comfort zone more than ever. When I wanted to stay in, holed up in my dorm, my sorority sisters would drag me out of my funk and take me to go get frozen yogurt or have a movie marathon. I ended up with 250 new friends, girls who I probably would never have approached or formed friendship without Phi Mu. 

I found best friends within my chapter: my big (of course), my best friend (who I met on bid day bc we were excited/nervous/had no idea what was going on during a group picture), my future roommate, the girls in my residence hall. It's insane that I get to spend three more years surrounded by the best sisterhood. 

The cool thing about UF is that every sports game is free to students (excluding football tickets), meaning there is no excuse why you shouldn't go to a game. Gamedays are the best, being an obnoxious fan is actually fun, and nose bleed seats are still great.

I only missed one gameday this past football season (FSU vs. UF and I'm still kicking myself about it). Football season in the South is unlike any other. It's hot, yes, and your hair will get frizzy and unmanageable, but everyone is in the same situation. I've been rained on, sweated for six hours, froze my tail off, and had sore feet from new cowboy boots, but I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world.

I wish I would have gone to more basketball, baseball, and other games. Schedules get busy and sometimes you're just down right exhausted, but honestly, I'm sad I missed out on some of those events. For the next three years, I hope I take more advantage of going to sporting events (especially baseball games). 

Yes, that is a piñata costume. Yes, I did spend four hours making it. And yes, I had to throw it away after three hours after wearing it (also lost my hats 30 minutes into the night). College has taught me not to care about what other people think. I'm guilty of wanting to appease people, but it's exhausting. Being yourself is far more fun, I've found. And finding people to share in the fun is even more rewarding.

Also, I used to worry about how boys would view me and I tried my hardest to be on my A-game at all times, but that's not what college is about. College is about developing who you are and what you want to be in the future. I'm tired of trying to find a boy to fit into my already busy schedule. If one comes along, great. But in the meantime, I'm gonna have fun with my friends, dressing up in ridiculous outfits and brainstorming Instagram captions to accompany them.

First semester was hard. I was thrown into a new life: independent, figuring how to navigate a new campus/city, all the while trying to stay true to myself. I worried about being social enough, being friendly enough, and trying to hold onto my friendships back home. I was homesick and didn't want to acknowledge it, so I would avoid staying in and crash in the library or at my sorority house, which led to less interaction with my roommate. I didn't read my Bible frequently like I had once done and I would find excuses to not go to Bible study. 

I found myself in mood swings, getting down about the smallest things, and I didn't feel like myself. I hadn't gone off the deep end or turned to a life that my parents didn't approve of, but I was only about 80% me.

Second semester came and I wanted a change. I didn't get upset if I had to stay a weekend and couldn't come home. I stopped skipping Bible study and started meeting with one of my sisters for a weekly discipleship time. I got closer to my roommate and didn't mind staying in my dorm. I stopped getting homesick and actually grew to love my campus. I camped out in the library when I would have rather binge-watched Netflix. I found a core group of friends and stopped trying to become best friends with every one I met. I was overall more happy and more myself. 

Go into college with your priorities in check and when you feel yourself putting silly things above those priorities, take a moment and reflect. You'll be a lot happier and less stressed. 

In high school, I was a straight A student since Kindergarten. I had over a 4.0 going into college and graduated 4th in my class. So you can imagine my surprise when I received my first ever B first semester of college. 

College courses are hard. They don't lie when they tell you in high school that college professors don't care if you pass or fail. I excelled in high school, but I felt extremely challenged when I arrived at UF.

I quickly had to change my attitude and my study habits. I typically spent anywhere from 8 hours to 24 hours in the library a week. I pulled all nighters when I didn't even procrastinate. Deadlines were quicker than I had expected. And even when you study for three full days, you can still get a less than desirable grade on your exam.

So I took the B (shoutout Microeconomics) and moved on. I was upset and confused, but it's college. You're just thankful you don't have to retake the class and spend hundreds of dollars. 

I did better second semester, but it's still challenging. High school is nothing like college. You are at liberty to skip class (only did that once because I went to Disney) or not do assignments or even show up for an exam, professors could care less. Sometimes you spend 14+ hours in the library and beg your friends to bring you food. But it's all part of being a college student. No other time in your life can you drink 3 cups of coffee and smuggle chicken nuggets into the library during finals week and not be judged for it.

So to all entering college, good luck. It'll be the greatest and worst times, but the best time of your life. 

I cannot stress this enough! This should be the first thing you do, regardless if it's two days before your finals week or a month. Map out the content that each exam will cover and put it into a table where you can quickly glance at it and see your progress.

Check your syllabus to determine if your final is cumulative or not and then write down every chapter/topic/section your teacher has covered or expected you to read over. I normally break it up by chapters. Start tackling reviewing each section and then check it off once you feel you covered it. With the classes I didn't bother opening the textbook for (oops!), I'll outline the chapters. But for math, I'll skip the chapters I understand and focus more on practicing the sections I'm not so comfortable with!

Before Finals Week...

Make sure you have study materials before the week of your final(s). Outline those chapters, make flashcards, or complete review packets so you can gauge how much you know before it gets to be crunch time. I like to divide up how much I will study for each subject. For example, I'm spending 40% of my time studying for Calculus and only 5% studying for Wildlife Issues. It just depends on the difficulty and amount of material has been covered in your courses.

Now I can't speak for everyone, but I do my best studying in the library. Some people prefer to study in their dorm/apartment or at a common space like a coffee shop or class building. But I am most productive in the library because I feel like I have to hold a sense of accountability surrounded by a bunch of other people who are working (or procrastinating you can never really tell). 

This is really up to you. I kinda do both, but I prefer to go with one other person. I typically will spend most of my weekends in the library with my roommate and it works out perfectly. We kinda keep each other accountable. If I see her opening up Netflix while we're in the library, I kinda give her a look and she does the same when I open up tumblr or Pinterest. 

It can be distracting though! If you feel like taking someone else will keep you off task, study alone! You'll have an easier time finding a seat in the library if you do (trust me). 

This is the system I use when I'm in the library. I'll do work for one solid hour and then reward myself with 15 minutes of free time. I'll put my phone on do not disturb and set it in my bag and go to work. There are a couple of apps out there that can block social media sites for a certain amount of time, but I don't use any just because I don't really get that sidetracked. 

As for my fifteen minute break, I'll normally go on social media sites, but I recently got a couple of coloring books, which I actually prefer. It can get aggravating staring at a computer screen for hours, so I really like coloring because it relaxes me but also makes me feel like I'm doing something productive when I'm really not. I have two coloring books: one is Bible verses that I got for Easter and I also have one called "Secret New York" which is super cute and trendy. I use Staedtler Triplus Fineliner pens and colored pencils.

What to Bring

Remembering everything to bring to the library is daunting. I typically write on a sticky note everything I want to accomplish while I'm in the library and then translate that into what books, notebooks, and materials to bring along with me.

Don't forget chargers, your laptop, headphones, and snacks! I normally get Starbucks while I'm in the library but I bring along a water bottle to fill up when I'm done with my coffee. As for snacks, I bring something salty, candy, and then granola bars. It's really up to you.

Oh and don't forget to dress for success. And by this I mean throw on those oversized t-shirts, norts, and bring a sweatshirt because 9 times out of 10, the library will feel like an icebox!

The Day Before

Your final is tomorrow and you still feel underprepared. I suggest solely studying for the exams you have the next day and then tackle the other material after each exam is over. Make sure you don't stay up all night cramming for this exam and get plenty of sleep. I'll try to get 6-8 hours before an exam and take about an hour nap after my exam to give my brain a rest!

Good luck and ace those finals! You got this!